Sembang MyMil - Pencarian Jodoh Atre, Tin, Bijan dan Jazim...V2

kerambit75 wrote:"ANDA DATANG MEMANG DIUNDANG, TAPI KALAU GAGAL KENA PULANG JUGA"

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is it wise to woo a recently brokenhearted girl?

mumuchi wrote:meh sini habaq sikit..macamana nak jawab soalan ni

is it wise to woo a recently brokenhearted girl?

Depending on how long it's been since she "just" broke up, she may not be ready to date again. Find ways to spend time with her and try to gauge her inclination toward seeing someone. Next, try to determine her feelings toward you. Look for signs that she reciprocates your feelings, i.e. eye contact, touching, crossing legs toward you (not away) and leaning toward you, among many others. Body language is important. If the vibe seems right, just tell her that you know she may need some time, but you care about her very much and would like to see her romantically. Any sort of deception or coercion will not end well. Flowers and what not aren't bad, but you are not bribing her. You want to be yourself and let her know you truly care. Honesty is the way to go. This is not an exact science, nor have I given you a script to follow. You gotta fly by the seat of your pants, so to speak. Also keep in mind, if you want to maintain a good relationship (whether romantic or platonic) afterward, don't come on too strong. Show her you care and make her laugh. Good luck!

MMW wrote:No it is not wise!!

Sebabnya that "recently" brokenhearted girl masih dok ingat kat balak dia tu.

Emosi dia masih belum stabil. Kalau balak dia pujuk balik, ayat baik, mengimbau kenangan silam dia akan kembali dan dump you.

Kalau dah setahun broken hearted haaa yang tu ada can. Mas tu dia dah mula waras dan dapat berfikir dengan baik.

Sebaik-baiknya kawan dulu dengan "recently" brokenhearted girl. Jangan gelojoh!. Give her a shoulder to cry on and see where the relationship goes after that. Dan jangan menaruh harapan!!

MMW wrote:Give her a shoulder to cry on and see where the relationship goes after that. Dan jangan menaruh harapan!!

MMW wrote:Aku suka filem Hitch. The lesson is study the girl first sebelum masuk ayat. Apa dia suka. Sape kawan dia. Mak ayah dia sape?

marc_zman wrote:

MMW wrote:Give her a shoulder to cry on and see where the relationship goes after that. Dan jangan menaruh harapan!!

menaruh harapan takleh.. menaruh perasaan boleh.. anytime bebeh.. ekekekeeee

fuyooo.. MMW ni mmg romantika de amor laaa.. ok laaa kan coz org sudah berteman hidup.. ni abe tin pun tak mau kalah gak nih.. ekekekeee

tin wrote:

MMW wrote:Aku suka filem Hitch. The lesson is study the girl first sebelum masuk ayat. Apa dia suka. Sape kawan dia. Mak ayah dia sape?

erkk bos...

ini dah mcm stalking plak kang?

tin wrote:aiseyyy...

MMW beat me to it...

ok. ini wa main cut and paste jer nih.

Depending on how long it's been since she "just" broke up, she may not be ready to date again. Find ways to spend time with her and try to gauge her inclination toward seeing someone. Next, try to determine her feelings toward you. Look for signs that she reciprocates your feelings, i.e. eye contact, touching, crossing legs toward you (not away) and leaning toward you, among many others. Body language is important. If the vibe seems right, just tell her that you know she may need some time, but you care about her very much and would like to see her romantically. Any sort of deception or coercion will not end well. Flowers and what not aren't bad, but you are not bribing her. You want to be yourself and let her know you truly care. Honesty is the way to go. This is not an exact science, nor have I given you a script to follow. You gotta fly by the seat of your pants, so to speak. Also keep in mind, if you want to maintain a good relationship (whether romantic or platonic) afterward, don't come on too strong. Show her you care and make her laugh. Good luck!

MMW wrote:Engkau tu marc diam-diam ubi berisi.... dia belum turun ayat lagi tu... kang menangis semua orang....

mumuchi wrote:

yang merah tu haram tau..ini mesti advice dari mat salleh ni..tak leh nak pakai sangat ekekekekeke

mumuchi wrote:aiii dah tak ada orang nak jawab..meh aku letak kat thread yang sepatutnya ekekekeke!

kerambit75 wrote:Memandangkan awek2 zaman skg mendewa-dewakan dan memaksumkan suami orang, mungkin aku perlu menyamar jadi suami orang bile berkenalan. Puiiii!!!!!

observateur wrote:

kerambit75 wrote:Memandangkan awek2 zaman skg mendewa-dewakan dan memaksumkan suami orang, mungkin aku perlu menyamar jadi suami orang bile berkenalan. Puiiii!!!!!

waa ini maciam ka sekarang...?


erk... kenapa tada awek "kejar" wa?

Wa ingat wa muka bad luck kut....

observateur wrote:

kerambit75 wrote:Memandangkan awek2 zaman skg mendewa-dewakan dan memaksumkan suami orang, mungkin aku perlu menyamar jadi suami orang bile berkenalan. Puiiii!!!!!

waa ini maciam ka sekarang...?


erk... kenapa tada awek "kejar" wa?

Wa ingat wa muka bad luck kut....

kerambit75 wrote:Memandangkan awek2 zaman skg mendewa-dewakan dan memaksumkan suami orang, mungkin aku perlu menyamar jadi suami orang bile berkenalan. Puiiii!!!!!

5229 wrote:

lu muka baragas kot..market skang nak muka ala2 jambu artis korea..

5229 wrote:

kerambit75 wrote:Memandangkan awek2 zaman skg mendewa-dewakan dan memaksumkan suami orang, mungkin aku perlu menyamar jadi suami orang bile berkenalan. Puiiii!!!!!

nak suami orang abih bujang macam wa bila nak kawen..

kerambit75 wrote:

5229 wrote:

lu muka baragas kot..market skang nak muka ala2 jambu artis korea..

Mcm #*&^% je taste awek2Msia skg, nak muka Korea la, negro, le Bangla, Lombok le. Semua yg import je. Mana le lelaki tempatan tak beralih ke cewek Indo.n (bukan cewek staf Kementerian Kebajaklautan dan Perampokan R.I ye!)

dewafrost wrote:

5229 wrote:

kerambit75 wrote:Memandangkan awek2 zaman skg mendewa-dewakan dan memaksumkan suami orang, mungkin aku perlu menyamar jadi suami orang bile berkenalan. Puiiii!!!!!

nak suami orang abih bujang macam wa bila nak kawen..

itu yg aku tgh takut2 nii, sbb aku pun sedang di intai oleh 2-3 org nak dara jugak niii..... bahyerrr wooooo.....